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1. Sycuan Casino Resort

Sycuan Casino Resort
4.0 star property
El Cajon
9.4 out of 10, Exceptional, (2,215 reviews)
"Great stay!"
United States
Kimberly
The price is P5,734
P7,064 total
includes taxes & fees
Nov 9 - Nov 10
Sycuan Casino Resort
A hotel with a covered patio area featuring outdoor seating and a fire pit.

2. Ayres Lodge Alpine

Ayres Lodge Alpine
3.0 star property
Alpine
9.2 out of 10, Wonderful, (1,174 reviews)
"Great stay!"
United States
Luis
The price is P6,979
P7,551 total
includes taxes & fees
Nov 16 - Nov 17
Ayres Lodge Alpine
A hotel lobby with a modern chandelier, comfortable seating, a large window with a mountain view, and a television screen.

3. Jamul Casino Resort

Jamul Casino Resort
4.5 star property
Otay Ranch
9.4 out of 10, Exceptional, (26 reviews)
"Love this resort"
United States
Caleb
The price is P6,872
P7,577 total
includes taxes & fees
Nov 9 - Nov 10
Jamul Casino Resort
A modern restaurant with a bar area, dining tables, and chairs.

4. Courtyard by Marriott San Diego El Cajon

Courtyard by Marriott San Diego El Cajon
3.0 star property
Downtown El Cajon
9.2 out of 10, Wonderful, (1,001 reviews)
"Clean, nicely decorated big room."
United States
Erin
The price is P10,963
P12,080 total
includes taxes & fees
Nov 30 - Dec 1
Courtyard by Marriott San Diego El Cajon
A multi-story hotel with a prominent entrance, a stone facade, and a clear sky.

5. WoodSpring Suites Santee - San Diego Northeast

WoodSpring Suites Santee - San Diego Northeast
2.5 star property
Santee
8.6 out of 10, Excellent, (353 reviews)
"It's a great place to stay and very affordable."
United States
Shaun
The price is P5,927
P6,519 total
includes taxes & fees
Nov 9 - Nov 10
WoodSpring Suites Santee - San Diego Northeast
An outdoor patio with a fire pit, seating, and a view of Fletcher Marketplace.

6. Hampton Inn & Suites El Cajon San Diego

Hampton Inn & Suites El Cajon San Diego
2.5 star property
El Cajon
8.6 out of 10, Excellent, (945 reviews)
"Excellent service and hospitality"
United States
Alex
The price is P8,858
P9,761 total
includes taxes & fees
Nov 22 - Nov 23
Hampton Inn & Suites El Cajon San Diego
A spacious lobby with leather sofas, a round coffee table with fruit, and a ceiling adorned with colorful hanging ornaments.

7. Best Western Plus La Mesa San Diego

Best Western Plus La Mesa San Diego
3.0 star property
La Mesa
8.4 out of 10, Very good, (1,011 reviews)
"Great place for the price. Staff was very helpful"
United States
ANDREA
The price is P7,604
P8,364 total
includes taxes & fees
Nov 15 - Nov 16
Best Western Plus La Mesa San Diego
A hotel room with two beds, a large landscape painting above the beds, and a nightstand with a lamp.

8. Days Inn by Wyndham San Diego-East/El Cajon

Days Inn by Wyndham San Diego-East/El Cajon
2.0 star property
El Cajon
7.8 out of 10, Good, (1,007 reviews)
"Staff was outstanding."
United States
Anthony
The price is P5,145
P5,669 total
includes taxes & fees
Nov 16 - Nov 17
Days Inn by Wyndham San Diego-East/El Cajon
A garden with a gazebo, pathways, and a mountain in the background.

9. Vineyard Hacienda

Vineyard Hacienda
3.5 star property
Jamul
9.2 out of 10, Wonderful, (594 reviews)
"This place is amazing! It is an Old Hacienda… with modern day luxuries… The wine cellar had a wall waterfall. So many antiques throughout the house!! Many passage ways. The outdoor garden, pool, koi pond all just so relaxing after a long drive. My husband and I will definitely be back again for a longer stay. Don’t forget to try the wine. "
United States
Shirley
The price is P9,357
P10,106 total
includes taxes & fees
Dec 1 - Dec 2
Vineyard Hacienda
A motel sign with a number '6' and an 'ENTER' arrow, indicating the direction to the motel.

10. Motel 6 El Cajon, CA - San Diego

Motel 6 El Cajon, CA - San Diego
2.0 star property
El Cajon
7.4 out of 10, Good, (1,848 reviews)
"Room was clean and staff was friendly."
United States
Justin
The price is P4,062
P4,655 total
includes taxes & fees
Dec 2 - Dec 3
Motel 6 El Cajon, CA - San Diego
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11. Holiday Inn Express La Mesa Near SDSU by IHG

Holiday Inn Express La Mesa Near SDSU by IHG
3.0 star property
San Diego
8.4 out of 10, Very good, (634 reviews)
"It was a great location for what we were there for. I also like how convenient some food places were and the freeway."
United States
Michelle
The price is P9,772
P10,769 total
includes taxes & fees
Dec 9 - Dec 10
Holiday Inn Express La Mesa Near SDSU by IHG
A hotel room with a large bed, a desk, and a chair.

12. Super 8 by Wyndham El Cajon/San Diego

Super 8 by Wyndham El Cajon/San Diego
2.0 star property
El Cajon
7.8 out of 10, Good, (1,002 reviews)
"Room was clean, quiet & very comfortable."
United States
Lori
The price is P4,770
P5,256 total
includes taxes & fees
Nov 29 - Nov 30
Super 8 by Wyndham El Cajon/San Diego
A pool area with lounge chairs and a hot tub, surrounded by a multi-level building with balconies.

13. Best Western Santee Lodge

Best Western Santee Lodge
2.5 star property
Santee
7.8 out of 10, Good, (708 reviews)
"Very quiet and clean place"
United States
Salvador
The price is P6,527
P7,193 total
includes taxes & fees
Nov 12 - Nov 13
Best Western Santee Lodge
A hotel room with two beds, each with a patterned bedspread, a nightstand with a lamp, and a wall-mounted light fixture.

14. Northgate Motel

Northgate Motel
2.0 star property
El Cajon
7.8 out of 10, Good, (747 reviews)
"This hotel was very clean and made my stay very pleasant. The staff was helpful and friendly. I stayed here and I’m looking to book again for my birthday."
United States
Madeline
The price is P4,290
P4,719 total
includes taxes & fees
Dec 1 - Dec 2
Northgate Motel
A room with wicker chairs, a small table, and a potted plant.

15. Rodeway Inn Santee San Diego East

Rodeway Inn Santee San Diego East
2.0 star property
Santee
7.6 out of 10, Good, (916 reviews)
"Great"
United States
Gabriel
The price is P5,390
P6,031 total
includes taxes & fees
Nov 10 - Nov 11
Rodeway Inn Santee San Diego East
A multi-story building with a red and beige facade, a parking lot with several cars, and a sign indicating no heavy trucks or large equipment parking.

16. Rancho San Diego Inn & Suites

Rancho San Diego Inn & Suites
2.5 star property
El Cajon
7.2 out of 10, Good, (209 reviews)
"Nice decent stay ."
United States
Matthew
The price is P4,544
P4,999 total
includes taxes & fees
Nov 9 - Nov 10
Rancho San Diego Inn & Suites
A building with a 'Lobby' and 'Vacancy' sign, surrounded by a variety of flowering plants.

17. Heritage Inn La Mesa

Heritage Inn La Mesa
2.0 star property
La Mesa
7.0 out of 10, Good, (1,664 reviews)
"The check in people are very nice."
United States
Miguel A
The price is P4,570
P5,036 total
includes taxes & fees
Nov 30 - Dec 1
Heritage Inn La Mesa
A modern hotel room with a large bed, bedside tables, a heater, and a window with curtains.

18. Clarion Pointe El Cajon San Diego East

Clarion Pointe El Cajon San Diego East
3.0 star property
El Cajon
6.6 out of 10, (1,001 reviews)
"The place to old"
United States
Juan
The price is P4,432
P4,876 total
includes taxes & fees
Nov 10 - Nov 11
Clarion Pointe El Cajon San Diego East
A compact hotel room with two beds, a desk with a computer, a small refrigerator, and an air conditioning unit.

19. Valley Motel El Cajon-San Diego

Valley Motel El Cajon-San Diego
2.0 star property
El Cajon
6.6 out of 10, (745 reviews)
"Friendly very informative staff truly always a good reminder each time and the neat things are spacious room like an apartment. Loving the cold a/c was perfect! Thank you for your service!"
United States
lowena
The price is P3,859
P4,245 total
includes taxes & fees
Nov 9 - Nov 10
Valley Motel El Cajon-San Diego
A modern hotel room with a large bed, a desk with a chair, a television, and a bathroom visible through an open door.

20. Motel 6 La Mesa, CA - San Diego

Motel 6 La Mesa, CA - San Diego
2.0 star property
La Mesa
7.6 out of 10, Good, (1,006 reviews)
"It was clean, easy to check in and out, and the staff were friendly."
United States
Gavin
The price is P6,014
P6,625 total
includes taxes & fees
Nov 9 - Nov 10
Motel 6 La Mesa, CA - San Diego
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