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A rustic lodge with a sign reading "BIG SUR LODGE" and a signboard advertising beer flights and rotating craft.
A cozy living room with a fireplace, comfortable seating, and a view of the outdoors.
A hotel room with a bed, wooden headboard, two bedside tables with lamps, a dresser, a window with blinds, and a framed picture above the bed.
A cozy lounge area with a fireplace, wooden furniture, and a television mounted on the wall.

1. Big Sur Lodge

Big Sur Lodge
Big Sur
United States
Amanda
P11,134
P12,644 total
includes taxes & fees
Nov 4 - Nov 5
Big Sur Lodge
A wooden pergola with steps leading to a covered area, surrounded by greenery and a pathway.
A resort with a swimming pool, outdoor seating, and a view of the surrounding forest.
A spacious living area with a fireplace, wooden beams, and a modern chandelier.
A multi-story wooden building with outdoor seating areas and a landscaped garden.

2. Alila Ventana Big Sur

Alila Ventana Big Sur
Posts
United States
Christopher G
P138,240
P160,087 total
includes taxes & fees
Nov 4 - Nov 5
Alila Ventana Big Sur
An outdoor deck with a fire pit, seating, and a view of the surrounding landscape.
A spacious living area with a high ceiling, wooden beams, a large window, and a dining area with a table and chairs.
A hotel room with a large bed, two bedside tables with lamps, a ceiling light, a large mirror, and a sliding glass door leading to a balcony.
A pool area with a fenced deck, lounge chairs, and a view of mountains.

3. Hidden Valley Inn

Hidden Valley Inn
Carmel Valley
Mexico
Jessica
P7,975
P8,919 total
includes taxes & fees
Oct 6 - Oct 7
Hidden Valley Inn
A building entrance with a check-in desk, a door marked 'OFFICE,' and potted plants.
A window with white shutters, offering a view of a brick roof and trees.
A dining area with a table and two chairs, a window with curtains, a framed picture on the wall, and a small table with a lamp and wine glasses.
A hotel room with a desk, two chairs, a television, a bed, and a small table with a bottle and glasses.

4. Carmel Wayfarer Inn

Carmel Wayfarer Inn
Northwest Carmel
United States
Walter
P7,470
P9,098 total
includes taxes & fees
Nov 3 - Nov 4
Carmel Wayfarer Inn
A spacious living area with a large view of the ocean, furnished with sofas, chairs, and tables.
A corridor with large windows overlooking the ocean, wooden flooring, and green upholstered chairs.
A cozy living room with a fireplace, leather sofas, and a view of the ocean at sunset.
A spacious lobby with a high ceiling, large windows, and hanging planters.

5. Monterey Beach Hotel, A Tribute Portfolio Hotel

Monterey Beach Hotel, A Tribute Portfolio Hotel
Monterey
United States
Katherine
P11,259
P15,267 total
includes taxes & fees
Nov 1 - Nov 2
Monterey Beach Hotel, A Tribute Portfolio Hotel
A bathroom with a sink, toilet, and bathtub, a towel rack, and a shower with a window.
A building with a sign for 'Carmel Oaks Inn & Suites' and a pathway leading to it.
A patio with a round table and chairs, a large umbrella, and potted plants.
A hotel room with two beds, a ceiling fan, a nightstand, a desk, and a window with blinds.

6. Clarion Collection Carmel Oaks Inn

Clarion Collection Carmel Oaks Inn
Downtown Carmel
United States
Carol
P8,568
P10,829 total
includes taxes & fees
Nov 4 - Nov 5
Clarion Collection Carmel Oaks Inn
A hotel room with two beds, a television, a lamp, and a view of trees through large windows.
A balcony with a view of a swimming pool, chairs, and a railing.
A hotel room with two beds, a desk, a chair, and a balcony with a view.
A bar area with a long counter, multiple bar stools, and a television screen mounted on the wall.

7. Travelodge by Wyndham Monterey Bay

Travelodge by Wyndham Monterey Bay
Casanova Oak Knoll
United States
Gustavo
P4,391
P5,122 total
includes taxes & fees
Nov 3 - Nov 4
Travelodge by Wyndham Monterey Bay
A covered patio with outdoor furniture, a fireplace, and a view of a house with a tiled roof.
A bar area with a bartender serving drinks to customers.
A building with a sign reading 'Brophy's Tavern' and a sidewalk with a tree and hedges.
A bar with wooden chairs, shelves of liquor bottles, and framed historical photos.

8. Hotel Carmel

Hotel Carmel
Northwest Carmel
United States
Clara
P17,765
P22,949 total
includes taxes & fees
Nov 1 - Nov 2
Hotel Carmel
A modern hotel lobby with a reception desk, seating area, and a large TV screen.
A multi-story hotel with a prominent glass facade and a sign reading "EMBASSY SUITES".
A hotel room with a sofa, TV, dining area, and a balcony with a view of the sea.
A spacious living area with a large flat-screen TV, comfortable seating, and a wooden ceiling structure.

9. Embassy Suites by Hilton Monterey Bay Seaside

Embassy Suites by Hilton Monterey Bay Seaside
Seaside
United States
Shannon
P12,772
P15,587 total
includes taxes & fees
Oct 12 - Oct 13
Embassy Suites by Hilton Monterey Bay Seaside
A two-story house with a wrap-around porch, a chimney, and a well-maintained garden.
A hotel room with a bed, a desk, a fireplace, a TV, and a painting.
A living room with a sofa, armchair, ottoman, coffee table, fireplace, television, and a large mirror.
A hotel room with a fireplace, a television, a desk with a coffee maker, and a comfortable seating area with a patterned carpet.

10. Victorian Inn

Victorian Inn
New Monterey
United States
Sandy
P10,077
P11,493 total
includes taxes & fees
Oct 28 - Oct 29
Victorian Inn
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Frequently asked questions

How do I find a gay-friendly accommodation in Big Sur?
Consider this your open invitation to pack your bags and find gay-friendly hotels in Big Sur on our website. Visitors are sure to enjoy all Big Sur has to offer including its seaside.
What is the favorite LGBTQ-friendly hotel in Big Sur?
Alila Ventana Big Sur is a top LGBTQ-friendly resort, and features 2 outdoor pools and free WiFi. Big Sur Lodge is another good option for your vacation.
How many gay-friendly hotels will I find in Big Sur?
There are currently 2 LGBTQ-friendly accommodations in Big Sur.
What is there to see in Big Sur?
During your vacation, get out and enjoy all that Big Sur has to offer. You and your traveling companions may want to visit Pfeiffer Big Sur State Park, Pfeiffer Beach, and Andrew Molera State Park. While you're here, create some great memories of your trip with stops at Julia Pfeiffer Burns State Park, McWay Falls, and Los Padres National Forest.
What is a gay-friendly hotel in Big Sur?
LGBTQ-friendly hotels are places where lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender travelers are proudly welcomed. Expedia has compiled a selection of LGBTQ-friendly hotels worldwide. In Big Sur, these hotels operate in a spirit of inclusiveness, prioritizing a diverse environment in which guests are welcomed, respected, and not obliged to declare or hide their sexual orientation.
What can I expect from a gay-friendly hotel in Big Sur?
Stay at an LGBTQ-friendly hotel in Big Sur and you won't have to hide your same-sex relationship or your sexuality when you check-in. Many of our LGBTQ-friendly accommodations offer community-specific packages, exclusive tours, and opportunities for social interaction.

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